Before you run off to America to be with the man that only wants you it would only be fair as per Norwegian customs/culture to give everyone that travelled with you to South America a chance to keep you from leaving Norway, be that carnal or platonic reasons.
Is it fun, making a mockery of Norway?
Is this why you wouldn’t want anyone to wait for you?
But what am I saying, you’re happily married to a “wonderful” man and are not the same person I met so many ages ago.
Where are my manners…