Voices

The voices have been present the last few days, but that might be because I forgot to take my medication on Friday into Saturday and Sunday.

Still, I haven’t written down much of what they’ve been saying in regards to you.

It feels like they’re trying to get someone to commit suicide, for a while anyway, and it’s not directed at me because they would say my name or username or something and it feels like there’s a response coming from somewhere else.

There’s more but I don’t want to insult anyone at this time.

I know they’re delusions and hallucinations and I want to be done with you as much as you seem to be done with me, even though I’d likely give us a second chance if we could make it work.

Like logically I should just push past all of these feelings and try to move on with someone else, start a family, sure, but those are no longer my goals, even if my mom tells me she wants grandkids every Christmas.

It’s complicated.

Fear..?

I’m listening to music on the train, and in the left side of my head I felt something, and then this thought came rushing in, this “fearful” sensation that we’ll never see or meet or be together ever again.

But when I pull back from that, it’s been over 10 years of mostly radio silence.

It’s irrational to start being “afraid” of that now, if anything I’m comfortable with it.

This is just as irrational as holding out hope that we’ll be together again.

Why did I feel that?

Where does it come from?

I hope someone out there loves you enough to send you internet memes

Maybe you have social media and you just blocked me everywhere like you said you would, I don’t know, but all my friends and family do is send each other memes all day.

Something to laugh at, something to make you smile, to motivate you, give you a little bit of FOMO every once in a while.

I hope someone out there in the world loves you enough to send you memes, because I totally would, if it didn’t go against my best interests.

Here's a weird one-

I’m getting jealous.

In my head there’s this inkling, this possibility that you’d cheat on me with one or multiple of my current friend group.

This is highly illogical. Like enough for me to step back and just say “what the fuck.”

And I know, I wrote that shit storm of all these sexually deviant thoughts and behaviors in so many documents in the past, but this is really odd, with all the logic that I have, the knowledge of what is reality, why am I thinking and feeling this?

And then, I go to my recent post about Quantum Entanglement and I think maybe I’m picking up on someone on your side of the world, with feelings for you, your current partner, and his or their insecurities?

Because I shouldn’t have these feelings.

What I REMEMBER of you, you weren’t remotely interested in anyone else while we were together, in any of the situations I brought you in.

I mean I have pictures I can see it on your face, so why?

Of course, you’re a “different person” now, but hell, this “new” you, whomever they are, they/you aren’t even interested in me, so that makes this even more ludicrous.

I’m just writing just to write at this point.

I’m also gonna try to finish my Norwegian Language lessons.

I want closure for that as well.

Thinking Positive

I was trying to find this post on Instagram where this guy was talking and saying something like “the people you are surrounded by are versions of yourself, they could be you, for better or worse.”

Currently, for work, I’m surrounded by millionaires.

I reflect on that post and think that as long as I keep working hard, keep the American Dream alive, holdfast to the indomitable able human spirit, I’ll make it, I’ll be fine.

And then my thoughts drift off to you.

Sure, we didn’t make it, together at least.

But if I’m to hold what you say is true, your life isn’t bad either, and if you read my “illusive ranting” maybe you’d be investing whatever money you have into your own countries economy and you’d be close to a couple million yourself.

They say the America Dream is alive in your part of the world, that Norway has more millionaires per capita.

In my search for that one Instagram post I found two more, one about staying the course and the other saying “if it didn’t work out with that person they weren’t for you.”

I want to believe that, but another part of me just wants you back.

I can make it as small as subatomic particles in my mind, completely invisible to the naked eye, but it still feels like it has the gravity of the sun, pulling me back into a space where I’m unsure of myself, in love, and as a result, avoiding finding love all together.

It’s not that I’m still hurt and nursing my wounds, well maybe a little bit of it is that, but I don’t want to be in bed with another woman, telling them I’m committed to them and in secret, writing about or to you.

That doesn’t seem right.

So it’s easier to just avoid it altogether.

Many of these millionaires are in second marriages.

I know I wrote in the past that you were my first divorce, given how far we got just to fall short of actual marriage, but even if symbolically you were my one and only, til death do I part, and it ended, then whom, pray tell, is the next?

I’ll never find them avoiding being in a relationship, I know that, but I also want to get to a better place financially, and a better body physically, before I really start trying to catch one of those many fishes in the sea again.

Of course, that’s a convenient excuse to keep eating junk food and stay fat so I could continue the life I’m living, but no I get more and more serious about physical fitness with each passing day.

And you already know I’m serious about my finances, but I could become a bit of disciplined.

All in all, the future looks bright, with or without you.

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Reunion

I don’t know why I envision a reunion of us, filled with hugs kisses and sex.

It’s peak romantic fiction, in my mind.

Because I state all the reasons why I’m undesirable, I have those last two things you wrote to me, that xanga message, those e-mails before I went to Norway.

I can plainly see that, I can use that as evidence that we will never be again, but the thoughts and feelings persist.

The dreams happen whether I like it or not.

My chest still swells as if I can confide in these, delusions, and say something cliche like “in the end, everything will work out, and everything will be okay.”

It’s a farce.

Why?

Why does this keep happening?

What do I do about it?

It’s like no amount of logic will quiet my heart and soul, they push and pull and urge me to reach out to you.

I just stuff these feelings deep down in my body until it begins to grow out of my toenails?

What else can I do?

Is there anything?

Please, God, Universe, Help Me.

Save me from myself.

Podcast

I’m listening to a podcast and they’re talking about quantum mechanics: All things are connected at all times and time and space is an illusion.

it’s cool to think that maybe that’s why I feel so attached to you, why it feels like it was only yesterday.

And maybe that would explain some of the visual hallucinations, when I smoke weed, when I’m in between being awake and asleep.

I’ll put it here: I wanted to make a comic based on how I felt about you, us, where a scientist discovers time travel and parallel dimensions but uses it just to go to different realities or times to try and make a relationship work with a girl he broke up with.

I’d be able to get all the “what ifs” out of my head, and just write, like I’m doing now, but play with the ideas of what could’ve been, what I could’ve done, how the relationship would’ve turned out, where we’d be. But it wouldn’t be us, just the character, and not even really based on us, just me, now that I think about it, but I also don’t want to create too much media about you, I think I’ll get to it eventually, but while it may be cathartic, it also feels burdensome, because I know there’s media that would be more fun for me to create.

So I’m putting the idea out here, hoping someone will come along and steal it. Maybe some AI will generate this concept in some random text for a person looking for some simple inspiration.

I don’t know.

But yeah, Quantum Physics.

Neat.

Before I forget-

I want you to be on social media.

I want to be sharing memes and images with you.

Videos.

Music.

I want to be showing you how much I’m reminded of you.

What makes me think or remind me that I love you.

I want to be doing that as often with you as I do it with everyone else in my life.

And it hurts that I’m not doing it with you, at least when I think about it.

I’ve said it before, I’m not asking you to get back together with me-

I just want a dialogue,

To communicate.

But maybe you want more.

Even though you’re displaying that you want less.

I don’t know-

But I know what I want.

At least when it comes to you.

It hurts.

It hurts knowing that it doesn’t matter.

That all of my thoughts and hypotheses will lead to nothing.

That I’ll never get closure.

That you want nothing to do with me.

I hurts knowing that I’ll be subject to this wondering, this wandering for god knows how many years before I did something or someone else.

It just hurts, recovering from a night of drinking and fun.

Alone at 6 in the morning, my friends on the couch and me knowing I should get some sleep for the day ahead but still pondering the thoughts of a relationship long passed.

it just fucking hurts, sometimes even physically, knowing that you won’t be there.

And I wish it wouldn’t.

But it does.

It hurts.

Israel

I remember on MSN chat when you asked me

“Is Israel a country or a place” or something like that, and from my biblical reference and memory, I said it was a “city.”

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Anyway, I’m pro Palestine now, and I wonder where your politics align.

Maybe I’ll never know, and it doesn’t matter, but still, at least for now, that question you asked me so long ago on MSN messenger haunts me.

You’re probably far away from that, tending to what’s in front of you, who loves you and who you love, but for me, I’m reliving the past I the present.

I can only hope you’re pro Palestine, but as I co your to write without a response, I feel you’re more and more diametrically opposed to me, and not even because it makes sense to be, but only for the fact that you want to drive the wedge deeper and create a space even further between us.

And as I continue loving your memory, I wonder how I’m supposed to go on in this world, looking for love, trying to find an equal or greater than how I feel or felt for you.

From the river to the sea.

I’m drunk

I love you.

You know that.

I know that.

Or maybe I love the memory of you.

You know that.

I know that.

I’m drunk.

I wish I could just tell you.

Ah!

Goddammit!

Ahhhhhh!

I love you.

I’m so drunk.

I’m So so so so so drunk.

I wish I was drunk with you.

I wish I was sharing memes with you.

I wish I was talking to you.

I wish I was holding you.

I wish I was fucking you.

I wish I was having sex with you.

I wish I was making love to you.

I wish I was staring my life with you.

I wish I was having a future with you.

Aghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!

Maybe I should become fluent in Norwegian for closure.

But the I’d have to become fluent in Swedish.

And maybe Danish.

I hate this.

I hate this feeling in my stomach.

I hate my thoughts.

I hate my heart.

I hate this.

But I can’t die.

I have to believe there’s something beautiful. Promising beyond this.

I have to live for my family.

I have to live for myself.

I have to live!

I HAVE TO LIVE!!!

It’s hard to live…

I kept that xanga message

You’re not the same person you were when you dated me.

So there’s no reason to think you’d fuck me when I’m having a night with my friends, if we were living together, and one of my friends would go into the room after me, if I weren’t paying attention, and fuck you again.

There’s no reason to think something like that, right?

If we’re never going to be together again, then why am I thinking it?

Jesus.

It’s been a while…

It’s been a while since I’ve smoked and drank in excess.

Some friends are over, and we’re partying the way that we do.

I feel like you’d like one of my friends, more than me, it pisses me off.

And then I think about the other people from your side of the world that I’m okay with, and laying bare the truth of my expeditions.

I think about having sex with you with my friends over.

Kissing you.

All these thoughts ring through my head as I drain the lizard, and I laugh.

Of course I’m thinking of you, if any of the last 72+ hours make a difference, of course I’m think g of you, even if I don’t want to be.

But I’m not thinking of anyone else.

I’ve prevented myself from thinking of anyone else.

It might be a good idea to change that, but also, I don’t think I’m in any position to.

Cheers!

Just now-

It’s 3:18AM

June 8th, 2024

I’m watching a YouTube video and the voices morphed the speakers in the video to say

“Uh Yahomied I understand how you feel but I am not interested”

“And you are not Ingeborg”

“If her husband left she would be devastated”

And-

I don’t know where this comes from, and I don’t need it.

You said you were an atheist and I’m not blaming god or anything but I’d like to know why the “Universe” or “Karma” or whatever you can explain away as a higher power is playing with my head and heartstrings.

Because I feel like two different people or more in one body.

I’ve said this before: I know all the logical and rational reasons why we aren’t “us” but is there something else in me calling out to the abyss for more reasons?

Something, someone other than the conscious mind I normally occupy?

What is this?

What is the brain?

What is mind?

Soul?!

It’s so vexing.

But I’m beyond madness now.

So long as I keep taking my medication at least.

Mind on Fire

I don’t know what it is recently, I’m taking my medication, and again, I think that’s a sign for me and not you-

But I don’t know what it is, I can’t stop thinking about you.

Your father.

Howard.

I’m just spiraling.

I’m getting it out of my head, writing it down, typing it out, cause if I held onto it I’d be gnashing my teeth and having migraines.

I wish we worked out.

That’s all I can seem to do.

I wrote on Twitter today that the universe/god has blessed me with divine timing before, and I don’t know of were a case for that but that little man that reminds me of that golden glow wants me to hold out hope.

It feels so stupid tho.

Like I just want to rot away.

Normal..?

I wonder if before the psychosis, I thought about you as much as I seem to write about you.

It’s normal, healthy to express yourself, but should I be giving it this much thought?

I wonder.

I’m certain I thought about you enough.

Remember that piece of mail I sent you and you sent it back? With the art work, and the writing? And then, I can’t remember if I made that with my mind virus or without it.

Ah well.